[image: japanese-styled black iron teapot with dragonfly ornament on its side. text: “Gay men in my are aeem to be all very party oriented and/or polyamorous . Fine by me, each for their own, but am I the only one who prefers home-evenings, cuddling and long dinners? Where are the other “old school” romantic gay men? I can’t be the only one. …Can I? I am not even that old…”.]

[Image:pansexual flag with black text typed over it. Text:I love my boyfriend. I’m happier with him than I have been with anyone else, and I can’t imagine not having him in my life.But I also have never had a girlfriend before and was looking for women when I met him instead.I find myself wishing I could be with a girl and thinking about it frequently. I want to have a romance with another girl and sweep her off her feet. I feel guilty about it even though I would never cheat on him……and it worries me. I don’t know if I’ll be happy long term this way or if i’m just making a mountain out of a mole hill in my mind.]

Image description: Asexual Pride flag “I am closeted, and Biromantic. I want to tell my family, but I don’t think I could handle how they’d look at me. I couldn’t handle their laughing. ‘It’s just a phase.’ No, it’s really not.”

[image: two cartoon boys in intimate embrace. text: ” To this day, I have believed that so called “yaoi fangirls” are just harmless nerds. But today, as I went to the coffee shop with my boyfriend, we run into a group of about 14-15 years old girls. Fist thing they declared as they saw us was loud “REAL LIFE YAOI!!” Then they promptly proceed to aproach us and ask for take a picture of us kissing and asking invasive questions of our relationship etc. They didn’t leave us aline the whole time we stayed on the cafe. I mean what the flying fuck!?”] 

[image: Gatsby and Daisy in the 2013 film adaptation of “The Great Gatsby.” text: “You are my Daisy. I’m moving thousands of miles away soon, to a better place, to start a better life. And to try to change the world. I almost talked you into going with me. Almost. I keep thinking that maybe if I make myself great enough, you’ll change your mind.”]

[image: Hitatchi Magic Wand on blue gradient background. text: “Goddammit genitalia Would it be so hard to come once from your girlfriend’s hard work Instead of having to resort to this bastard And pretending you’re a different set of bits?”]

[image: faded picture of country lane with one white house and other grey stoned one on the left and white wall and red leaved three on the right. text:”Recently, I visited my home village after years. I moved away at the very beginning of my transition. Now, I walked the streets hand in hand with my boyfriend, seeing familiar faces from the times when I grew up, yet no one of them recognized me. All they saw was happy gay couple. It was uncanny and very validating. I am happy”].

[celtx.com screenplay: THE MORE I LABEL MYSELF THE LESS ALONE I FEEL But am I really a panromantic asexual transgender FtM?]

[Image: Picture of Ru Paul’s Drag Race Season 5 contestants Text: I wish I was a Drag Queen so I could be in Ru Paul’s Drag Race.]  

[image: e-card of a man shaving his beard in front of the mirror. text: “Yesterday, I jacked off with my strap-on dick and some good gay porn. I felt so good and it felt so real that I just had to share it with someone. I feel god about myself. I’m a transman.”]