Image: graffiti on a wall saying “Not gay as in happy but queer as in fuck you” Text: My mother, who is in denial and refuses to use my preferred pronouns, likes to ask rude and invasive questions about my orientation and gender, which surprise and fluster me, and I end up giving awkward answers and saying things I normally wouldn’t. Today I accidentally outed my partner when she demanded to know if ze sees me as male or female, and if that makes zir gay or straight. I told her I was under the impression ze was bi. I wish I could be calm and educate her about non-binary identities, or at least have the guts to tell her NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS.

Image: graffiti on a wall saying “Not gay as in happy but queer as in fuck you”

Text: My mother, who is in denial and refuses to use my preferred pronouns, likes to ask rude and invasive questions about my orientation and gender, which surprise and fluster me, and I end up giving awkward answers and saying things I normally wouldn’t.

Today I accidentally outed my partner when she demanded to know if ze sees me as male or female, and if that makes zir gay or straight. I told her I was under the impression ze was bi.

I wish I could be calm and educate her about non-binary identities, or at least have the guts to tell her NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS.

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